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1/1/08

MarketWatch advice on Happiness

PAUL B. FARRELL in Special holiday contest: Just finish that sentence! asked you to complete the sentence "Whether you're Christian, Jewish, Buddhist, Muslim or atheist, we can all celebrate today's universal spirit. How? Try this. Simply answer this question: "I'm the happiest (and richest) investor because ...", and then he said " And to give you a few clues, here are my "12 New Secrets" to being happy and rich."

Here are his 12 hints:

  1. Happiness is making others happy
  2. Happiness is doing what you love
  3. Happiness is spending less than you earn
  4. Happiness is losing yourself in the present moment
  5. Happiness is knowing when 'enough is enough'
  6. Happiness is being unattached to money and other stuff
  7. Happiness is action, doing what's necessary and right
  8. Happiness is sometimes you're faking it so good you're happy
  9. Happiness is more a bunch of little moments than big deals
  10. Happiness is lots of loved ones and a warm puppy
  11. Happiness is about doing what you really love [see number 2 above]
  12. Yes, happiness is also about being rich ... 'rich in spirit'
At the end he said: "So take a moment and answer the question: " I am the happiest (and richest) investor because ..." That's your prize in this contest. It comes from within, an investment that will continue growing, making you richer and richer when you go back to the celebration, to your loved ones.
You can cause happiness wherever you go -- today, and every day. Have a joy filled holiday!"

I find the above the above very inspiring, it showed that being rich and happy are not incompatible. Very appropriate for a MarketWatch article, and something to reflect upon during the holidays.

The article is also reproduced in the Buddhist Channel. The reason must be because many of the ideas are in line with Buddhism as well as with other religions.

For example in the explanation of number 4 above, he quoted Thich Nhat Hanh,
"Thich Nhat Hanh is a Vietnamese Buddhist monk, peace activist and was a close friend of the popular Trappist monk Thomas Merton. "In Stepping Into Freedom," Thich says: "Your notions of happiness may be very dangerous. The Buddha says happiness can only be possible in the here and now, so go back and examine deeply your notions and ideas of happiness. You may recognize that the conditions of happiness that are already there in your life are enough. Then happiness will be instantly yours."


Read the full article
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12/27/07

LifeHack, GTD, ZTD and Friends

What is LifeHack, GTD, ZTD, and LifeHack 2.0?

LifeHack 1.0 is productivity tips to cut through information overload, and generally to get better organized. It was extracted from highly efficient IT people, similar to Steven Covey's "The 7 Habits of Highly Efficient People" for the general case.

For example the book "LifeHacker: 88 Tech Tricks to Turbocharge Your Day"
includes hacks such as emailing your future self (reminders), installing a personal Wiki, avoiding time wasting sites, automate repetitive tasks, control email, keep the Inbox empty, Google searching, firewalls, backups, etc.

GTD (Getting-Things-Done) is a set of tools (manual or electronic) to externalize our to-do lists, so that we need not keep them in our heads, and thus reduce stress. GTD can be seen as a glorified to-do-list, it includes calendars, workflows, 6 levels of focus and planning.

ZTD (Zen-To-Done) is a book by Leo Babauta: "Zen To Done: The Ultimate Simple Productivity System" , which claims to have combined GTD with Stephen Covey 7 Habits. ZTD focuses on developing 10 habits.

LifeHack 2.0 is a term I coined for the extension of LifeHack 1.0 to non IT subjects such as creativity, happiness, procrastination, writing and presentation skills, negotiation, investing, relaxation, mindfulness, exercise, sleep, eating habits, and giving gifts. These are some of topics you can find at LifeHack.org.

I am trying to compile LifeHack 2.0 hacks, some of these have appeared on this blog already. Hacks should be action oriented, and not domain specific. They can be inspired by philosophies and spiritual traditions, but should be acceptable to people from various beliefs.

LifeHack 2.0 Examples:

  • To see the extra-ordinary in ordinary things
  • Do simple ordinary things such as dish washing, sweeping the floor, gardening
  • Less Multi-tasking, more focus on here and now
  • Mindfulness, using every day events for reminders to be mindful (Thich Nhat Hanh suggested every time when a phone rings, to compose ourselves, before picking up the phone)
  • Mindfulness of bad habits to break them
  • Refactoring and re-purposing, get the task completed first and improve by refactoring (as in extreme programming). Re-use by re-purposing
  • Continuous Learning
  • Sub tasking, take one bite at a time
  • Don't use violence
All of the above hacks still need to be reworked, elaborated, or subdivided into smaller hacks.

I would be grateful for comments and suggestions of such LifeHack 2.0 tips from the readers.

Revised version: Life Hack 2.0 How-to's

8/29/07

Higher Order Negativities

The term "Negative Negativities" was, according to Pema Chödrön, used by her spiritual teacher Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche, in an article "Working with Negativities" (a chapter of the book The Myth of Freedom). In her interview "Good Medicine for This World", Pema Chödrön told us how reading the article had an important impact on her life.

I have not read Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche, so the following is my own interpretation of what I understand from Pema Chödrön.

Negativity in Buddhism is not the same as negative thinking (see e.g. Is positive thinking positive or negative? ). It refers to dukkha (suffering or dissatisfaction) situations, when we are angry, hateful, revengeful, envious, fearful, desirous, lustful, doubtful, in pain, in sorrow, in despair, etc.

For example, you returned to your parked car, and found your favorite new car scratched. You got upset, and that is negativity.

First order and higher order negativities.

If you only got upset, that is first order negativity. But when you start blaming the parking management, or people for not being responsible, or yourself for not being more careful, and so on, then you have higher order negativities.

The Buddha once asked, if you are hit by an arrow, which hurts more, the arrow or your mind?

For most people, the escalation of negativities in their minds is what really hurts.

In modern times, one use the term "damage control", the first order damage is limited, but the higher order damage is limitless.

Negativity as poison used in medicine.

What Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche is saying is that it is alright to have first order negativity, but not alright with negative negativities.

Dukkha is in the nature of all things. Shunryu Suzuki said that it is OK to suffer is.

Instead of developing negative negativities, the original negativity should be look upon as poison used in medicine, it will then be a source of creative energy.

The Night Travelers.

How can we turn negativities to healing? Pema Chödrön's answer is compassion. Start with compassion to oneself, stop blaming oneself, accept oneself unconditionally. Then realize that others are suffering in the same way.

Extend compassion to them, and to all.

Rumi wrote a poem called "Night Travelers," It's about how all the darkness of human beings is a shared thing from the beginning of time, and how understanding that opens up your heart and opens up your world. You begin to think bigger. Rather than depressing you, it makes you feel part of the whole.

Finally practice Tonglen, the art of absorbing other's pain and sending out help and compassion.

A lifelong practice.

Knowing and understanding that negative negativities is bad, is not enough. It must be practiced over and over again with mindfulness. No matter how long we have practiced, we will fail again and again. It is as if we have to be kept honest and humble. Each failure should be seen as a wake-up call. When we meditate on an object such as our breath, we will time and again be distracted by sound, thoughts, feelings, and so on, but is alright as long as we return to the object of meditation as soon as realize the distraction.

Abandon all hopes of fruition.

This may seem strange to most, but if we are really committed to "here and now", we can't allow the future to distract us.

This is consistent with other Eastern wisdom, found in the Bhagavad Gita ( "Since I have no cravings for the fruit of actions, actions do not contaminate Me.") and in the Wu Wei of Taoism.

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11/14/06

In praise of slowing down


I talked about slowing down in a previous post, as part of a debugging process, whereby we apply bare attention and maintain to be fully present, here and now, to avoid becoming slaves of viruses in our minds.

Kai Romhardt has written a cute little book, titled "Slow Down Your Life", which to the best of my knowledge is only available in German, and which shares some light on what we mean debugging our minds.
Romhardt spent several years at Plum Village and calls Thich Nhat Hanh his teacher.

His book is about deceleration from our hectic lives, it contains the five keys of slowing down:

Kai Romhardt's five keys of slowing down

Here and Now

All is change

There is no beginning nor ending

Growth

Rhythm

The five keys are then applied to four areas: Body, Mind, Activity, and Environment.
Although the book does not use the term debugging, it is actually very close to what I have in mind. It goes into much more detail though.

A very useful feature of the book is the introduction of checkpoints, where one is supposed to apply the brakes to decelerate, and then to reflect the situation. I remember Thich Nhat Hanh said, when the phone rings, we should not rush to pick it up, instead spend a brief moment to compose ourselves, to be mindful, and perhaps wish the caller well, whoever he or she is. We could say "God bless you", or "May all be happy", or "Amituofo" before we pick up the phone.
Romhardt has dozens of similar checkpoints as constant reminders to be mindful. For example, there is a checkpoint when we win big or lose big, when we are with sick or elderly people, when we hear church bells, when we are still in the office at 9 pm, when we eat in front of the television, and many others.
Please note that checkpoints in this sense are exactly the same as checkpoints in the debugging process. They are times to make a brief stop, to review the state of affairs.
Another version of checkpoints is simply the advice, "whenever you go through a door, stop briefly". In the past, this advice could have arisen because we were afraid to get ambushed, but now it means just to be composed and present. If you are present, you will automatically notice the things we normally don't see, such as seeing a possible ambush.
The Thai version is, "whenever you enter or leave a place, pray to the spirits". Substitute "pray to the spirits" with "be mindful", and you have a convenient and easy to remember checkpoint of mindfulness.

Romhardt's first key, "here and now" means a complete acceptance of the present moment. He quotes a motto from the Plum Village: "You have arrived, you are home". Some people hurry from place to place, from activity to activity, from past to future times, somehow they never arrive. It is nowadays popular, to apply visualization, to fantasize about beautiful, and peaceful places. It is possible that such exercises has their usefulness for stress reduction, but they are certainly not a mindfulness practice. Similar thing can be said about hypnosis.

The essence to "here and now" is that we stay embodied all the time. We have to stay relaxed but at the same time alert. Just relaxed may be good by itself, but relaxed by itself is not mindfulness.

The second key is "all is change" or impermanence. Heraclitus said, "you can never enter into the same river twice". The "I", that I know so well, is not something constant, its molecules changes from moment to moment. Meditators feel impermanence naturally, as they watch their breath.

Fritjof Capra, in the book The Tao of Physics, talked about a dynamic equilibrium, which is the result of the forces of Yin and Yang, or the dance of Shiva if you like. A dynamic equilibrium changes all the time, sometimes Yin is above and Yang below, and at other times, the reverse is true.

The third key is "no beginning and ending". This is about the continuity of all things. It may seem contradictory to the birth and death of many things, including ourselves. If we watch our breath, we see that there is a beginning, in-breath, pause, out-breath, ending, and stop, and then a repeat from the beginning again. Each breath is born, and dies later, and then a new breath is born and goes through the same process. Each breath is however different from the previous ones. This is not the meaning of the third key, it says that although each breath has a different identity from the previous ones (i.e. soul does not exist, re-incarnation does not exist), there is continuity physically and mentally. There is biological inheritance and memetic transmission. There is also the extended phenotype, a term used by Dawkins to denote phenotype created in our environment. The result of them all, is that continuity is ensured by the eighth level of consciousness, the consciousness before we were born, which is none other than the store of all causal events or Karma.

The fourth key is Growth or Development, according to which each thing has a unique growth path of its own, until it matures.
Romhardt gives an example from I Ching: growth has different phases, including waiting in patience, doing nothing, getting stuck, step backs and step forwards. It is essential to know or feel the timing of the phases. Getting it wrong, or worse, trying to manipulate time to fit us is a sin against nature. Slowing down means not manipulating time, but to do as nature dictates.

"Nothing else in the world... not all the armies...
is so powerful as an idea whose time has come. "

Victor Hugo

It used to be very simple, night is night and day is day, each fruit has its season, but now we have the technology, we can change nights into days, and make apples grow in winter. The results are often disappointing. Is it not better, to do like the polar bear, who knows when to sleep and when to hunt? When a Zen master was asked how to be true to oneself, he replied, "If I am hungry, I eat, and if I am sleepy, I sleep." Very wise indeed.

The fifth key is related to the fourth, but in regard to rhythms. Everything has its own rhythm. Slowing actually does not always mean slowing, it can also be speeding, but always in tune with the rhythms. The rhythm is sometimes slow, sometimes fast.
The fourth and fifth keys are practically identical to Non-doing or Wu-Wei in Taoism. Go with the flow is the modern expression for this principle.

What then are the benefits of slowing down?

  • fewer mistakes
  • better concentration
  • more effective
  • better relationship
  • not wasting energy, smaller ecological footprint
  • less stress
  • healthier living
  • can appreciate ordinary things
  • get rid of bad habits
  • to be true to oneself
  • on the path to liberation

The above is my interpretation of Romhardt's book. I apologize if I have misrepresented his ideas, one way or the other.

10/27/06

Debugging Mind Viruses

The idea that our minds are infected by viruses is not new. Here we mean viruses as analog to computer viruses (Technically, we use the term virus as a general term to include also worms, spyware, Trojans and other types of malware), not biological viruses. Richard Brodie wrote a book titled “Viruses of the Mind”, with the subtitle “The New Science of the meme”. Meme is thought to be the unit carrier, whereby viruses spread and proliferate. Brodie wrote: “Mind viruses have already infected governments, educational systems, and inner cities, leading to some of the most pervasive and troublesome problems of society today: youth gangs, the welfare cycle, the deterioration of the public schools, and ever-growing government bureaucracy.” In this posting, the author discusses techniques of debugging such viruses. It starts with slowing down, one pointed concentration, bare attention, and ends with reflection, and effort and practice.

Computer programs, except for the simplest school book examples, always have bugs, i.e. programming errors. That is why we have so many update releases and service packs. Yet the service pack itself introduces new bugs! As software grows more complex, the number of bugs increases exponentially. Software also ages, the longer it has been in use, the more likely it is to be in disharmony with the original specifications and/or with the changing environment it is supposed to handle. Additionally, software is often used in an open environment such as the internet, and the bugs are no longer just programming errors, but malware from infections.

The mind is definitely so much more complex than a computer program, quantitatively and qualitatively. It does not take a lively imagination, to see that mind viruses are so much more abundant, fatal and difficult to debug. There are no anti-viruses, which you can simply buy and use to clean our minds. Debugging our minds is inherently difficult, because we have first of all, to admit that we carry viruses, and be willing to scrutinize our ego, habits and world views. Even when we rationally recognize a virus in our minds, we still need considerable discipline to overcome it. Just think about overeating or quit smoking.

The mind debugging techniques discussed here are derived from age-old methods of liberation and purification of the mind. We will see some parallels as well as differences of these methods with computer debugging.

Basic techniques:

The processes in the mind are intricate and interlinked. Just as in computer debugging, we have to do unit testing before we do integration testing. Make sure that each component is functioning as they should, before considering the component’s interaction with each other. If processes are running parallel, we need to consider one particular process in isolation first. This is the technique of One Pointed-ness: concentrate on a single object. Don’t do multi-tasking. Don’t watch television or read the newspaper while eating, don’t answer the phone while simultaneously signing contracts. In the extreme, one should not sing while bathing. To some, this is contrary to what they normally do. Many also think that without multi-tasking, we are not functioning efficiently. There are two different opinions here, one considers debugging as a sort of cleansing process, after which we can return to our normal daily activities. The other says that we have to strive to do debugging at all times, anywhere. Here we only say that there are debug and normal modes, it is possible and desirable for some to in debug mode all the times.

Concentrating on a single object is hard enough. It may be a fast running process. Therefore slow down, trace each step one by one. We are so accustomed to rushing from place to place, from one object to another, from one activity to another, that we become impatient when things slow down. But many people familiar with stress reduction have come to the same recipe: slow down!

The third technique is Bare Attention, seeing things as they are without trying to do anything. Just noting, not labeling, not making inferences nor judgments. Suspend our thinking, just note what happens, breathing in, breathing out. When we have developed this technique to a certain level, we can discern finer things which we normally miss. Our body sends messages to us all the time, but we practically ignore them until one day we discover that we have a serious illness. Nature talks to us in many forms, but we keep destroying the very foundations of life on earth by pollution, cutting down trees, killing plant and animal species. Bare Attention to our to body, mind and to nature will help us to be aware of the messages they send. If a virus infects our mind, they will somehow manifest themselves, and Bare Attention will be aware of their existence. In theory at least, for there are many hindrances to this process; anger, emotion, desire, illusion, attachments can all make the view muddy and turbulent, and prevent Bare Attention to see through.

Bare Attention can be practiced by sitting in meditation, relaxing, and noting our breaths. Our minds will then wander like a monkey, sounds come from all around, sometimes a mosquito bites us, our body aches or we remember someone who has done us wrong in the past eliciting emotions. In Bare Attention we note everything that comes, without judgment, and return to our breath as soon as possible. When we are angry, note the feeling of anger, when a memory arises, be aware of it, and when we desire to quit the meditation, note it also. After our minds are quieter, we will be able to discern not just the fact that something is, but also its arising and passing away. We let things speak for themselves.

Bare attention can be called radical acceptance of the present moment. It is definitely not possible to practice bare attention while wandering to the past or future, or to dream of other places. It therefore ties together with the principle of Here and Now. Za Choeje Rinpoche, in a guided meditation tape, said: “ Meditation is simply the art of living in the present moment. The purpose of meditation is to remain in a state of calm abiding and to relax into our true nature”.

Not being here and now, means we are lost, living in some virtual reality built from memories, illusions and fantasies. To always abide in here and now is a very powerful weapon against mind viruses. By being here and now, we can keep in close touch with reality.

The techniques mentioned so far, One Pointed-ness, Slowing down, Bare Attention, are all connected with each other and with the principle of Here and Now.

It is important to point out, that during the practice, there are two very different processes going on. One is the concentration on an object such as breath, and the other is the noticing of whatever comes into the mind. The second process is unpredictable and chaotic. In order that the practice be beneficial, the first process must dominate, we must only notice the events interrupting the first process, but we must not follow them, we go back to the first process as soon as our awareness allows. The first process is the anchor without which there will no structuring, and chaos will take over. This theme of chaos and order is quite common in other areas. A good architecture is never a complete chaos. Nor is it just order. The order, symmetry and symmetry breaking, and some chaos confined within the order is what makes the architecture a work of art.Insight Meditation consists of two parts, Bare Attention and Clear Comprehension. Bare Attention must precede Clear Comprehension. However, by itself, Bare Attention is not sufficient to understand and reflect our mind. This is where Clear Comprehension comes in, which will be discussed in a follow-up post.